Who am I to judge ?
Who are you to think bad ?
Who is anyone to be mean ?
Here's the thing,
People are always so critical. So fast to judge other's when really, they shouldn't even care. Unless the person their judging is going to harm them is any way, what their doing, or what their wearing, or how they act, has absolutly no effect on them. So why would they judge? I think it's ridiculous. I mean, I'm not saying IM perfect, Of course I judge people. However, I DO think about it. I think about how I would feel if i were that person being laughed at, or being called a name, or just being critisized harshly. Judging inside of your head should be the only place you judge anyone. Because if any little part of your judgment is leaked out from beyond the tiny walls of your head, it spreads. It spreads like a deadly, and excruciatingly painful poison. I am not being over-dramatic either. Hear me out.
Everyone has had that day, where, you dont, and WONT go in public because of how you look, or if you cant find the right clothes. Right? Why is that? doesn't it suck, too? To feel as though your ugly, and gross, and that if you are seen in that condition that everyone will laugh at you? well that, that is called judging. Some people judge to make them feel better about themselves. Others do to fit in. andthen there are just those people who do it because others humiliation, is just amusing to them. But I dont get it, obviously these people are those who lack both sympathy, and empathy. Why not take a second, and put yourself in their shoes. IF it were you, who was being laughed at, and tteased by the people who you have to go to school with or the people who you have to see. But, even worst then getting teased by someone you know, is getting teased by a complete stranger. Who are they to judge? They dont know you, they dont knnow your backround, or where youve been. They know not a thing about you. And what makes THEM any better then you?
Anyways,
What made me write this is just, that I was at the bus station today, and theres a guy who goes there quite often, and im not saying thisa to be mean, but he is mentally handicap. When he is there, he acts strange, he talks different, and today, he was singing loudly to himself. There were two girls in the same area as me, and when they saw him, they looked at eachother and laughed, and began talking about him. How is that fair? Their mocking someone else's mental stability. Its a problem that he could not control, that he could not have any power over what so ever. He is a poor person doomed, and imprisoned to a life sentence of abnormality, and sadness. He will never be able to have a normal life, like those two girls DO have the privillege of having. Something he doesnt. And their LAUGHING about it. Of course, i thought it was weird when I first saw it, he's different. someone not normal. Those were my first thoughts, but then as i observed closer, its not HIS fault, So why should I laugh at something that was totally beyond his control.If anything, we should cry on his behalf, Cry that he cant have a normal life.
Now, i realize I AM being a little hypocritical. Just for the fact that franky showed me this g.i joe dubbed show, where they make fun of a mentally handicapped person, and i laugh at it. I shouldnt, but I do. Most people find it funny because of the difference of speech, because of the way that they cant say things the same we can, or say a proper sentence. So all of a sudden, because it isnt real, its okay. But really, its not. It IS real, its something that real people are born with and cannot do anything about. It's as real as the man i seen at the bus station today. And its a sad, sad thing. Imiagine a life, where you couldnt make any friends because your different, and everyone finds you weird. Imagine a life in which you can't go outside without being judged in some way. It would be hard. Friendless,hopeless,and lifeless.
Anyways, just think about it.
Its really sad.
Dont judge, because its something minor, that can lead t something big.
And by that, i mean death. suicide. People without anyone to run to, sometimes HAVE no other alternative. So pleaasseee be a friend to a person who has none.
Thankkkk you!!!!!
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1 comment:
Hello :)
It's in these situations that you can immediately tell how unintelligent these girls are (I haven't read the full blog yet, just got to the girls laughing at the guy)...
This tells you right away how unintelligent they are and I know I usually feel bad for them because it means they are not as educated as they think they are. They've essentially fooled themselves based on their social standing (I make XXX money, so i'm better than you...)
Everyone has their own story and each person is a book to read. :-)
Obviously these 2 girls probably wouldn't present an interesting story, while the guy would probably have many more interesting things to say...
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