Keeeep the mystery going!

So Ive come to realize something about us girls.

I usually haaate surprises.. so When I am told that something is being done for me I immediately ask what it is.. And Yes, I get upset when I dont get an answer to what is being done for me, but in the end, I usually end up loving it. Even if it WAS a surprise.

Sooo, what i`ve figured out, is that as much as us girls will beg you guys to tell us what you`re planning or what you`re doing.. NEVER GIVE IN! Because as much as we do ask and beg and wine, we really dont want to know. I know this now from personal experience. I was told by my boyfriend that he`d going to do something nice for me, and I was like what what what!! and for like 20 minutes he would not budge and would not tell me. He only told me there were roses involved. But being me, I begged and begged, and so finally he told me, he was making a dinner for us :) which is INCREDIBLY sweet of him.. but when I think about it, I would have rather not known, because i deflated and lost interest in the topic and there was no more mystery about it. Nothing to ask about, nothing to keep me up for hours wondering about.. I just know now. And thats it. I am going to know and theres just no more fun in it now..

So anyways.. Just though that any guys reading this should know that. NEVER spill the surprise, as much as we will beg you too or how much we say we hate surprises, DO NOT GIVE IN!! because deep down, we really do love surprises and if you tell us, theres nothing mysterious about you, or spontaneuous.. Keep mystery in your relationship.. It`ll keep us girls wondering about you and keep the need in us to figure everything out about you.. Trust me.. I know.